Sabotaging Aphrodite?: Sex and Self-Harm

Abstract

This study explored the various meanings of so-called sexual acting out behaviors by interviewing eight individuals, including three women, ranging from age 30 to 40, and five clinicians. The study also questioned whether some sexual acting out behaviors can be considered forms of self-harm for young women. The interviews provided insight into these women’s sexual experiences and their resulting emotional impact, as well as the experiences of clinicians working with women who reported harm as the result of their sexual experiences. Sexual behaviors were also examined from the lens of archetypes, protective and destructive complexes, the myths of Aphrodite, and how the psyche protects a fragile ego and seeks wholeness. By delving into the research from multiple disciplines, including relational, neurobiological, and depth psychological perspectives, this study provided a comprehensive and nuanced understanding of the complex interplay between engaging in sexual behaviors labeled as sexual acting out and self-harm. The findings of this study advocated for a nuanced and empathetic approach to addressing the needs of young women who may be engaging in what some refer to as sexual acting out that results in self-harm while seeking wholeness.